GROOMSMEN GIFT IDEA

Wedding season is just around the corner and the bridal party gift enquiries have started.

I was recently brainstorming bridesmaid gifts with a bride when we got to talking about groomsmen gifts. Her fiance is stumped trying to come up with an original and reasonably-priced gift for his buddies.

Guys are usually pretty easy to shop for but to get a guy a nice gift, you sometimes have to spend a little more than what your budget might allow for.

The thing with wedding party gifts is that it’s hard to get something that everyone will like at a good price. Most brides and grooms try to get something “cool” or something that can at least be worn again but most of the time, it’s not used again and not everyone agrees that it’s cool.

The last three groomsmen gifts my husband got were a tie, cologne, and a flask. He wears the cologne and has worn the tie a bunch of times. The flask will be good for a boys trip (if he doesn’t forget it). So all in all, the gifts he’s gotten are pretty useful. But what else could you give a guy?

How about a tie clip? Even guys who don’t wear ties still have the occasional tie-necessary events. I came across personalized tie clips on Love It Personalized’s Etsy shop. I wouldn’t engrave the front for a sleeker look, but I like the idea of engraving the initials or wedding date on the back!

GREEN WEDDING IDEAS

I was recently included in an article outlining green wedding ideas. The italicized copy below is an excerpt from the article and contains a reference to yours truly.

With growing awareness of the environmental effects of excess waste and pollution, it’s no wonder that many of us are pursuing a more sustainable way of living. Naturally, this lifestyle transformation has begun to carry over to weddings as well, and many eco-conscious couples are looking for new and unique ways to make their celebration of love a little more green.

As an added bonus, going green helps you stick to your budget by trimming out excessive waste, which we think is good karma for keeping the earth clean. Here are a few ideas on how to save both the earth and your pocketbook from succumbing to the real cost of weddings.

Jewellery

As we all know, mining ores and precious stones such as gold and diamonds often results in major environmental devastation. Conscious couples are choosing to opt out altogether, hiring local artisans to design one-of-a-kind pieces using metals and gems recycled from old jewellery. These include hair pieces, necklaces, bracelets and, of course, wedding bands. Not only does this help solve the issue of unnecessary suffering caused by mining, but it also helps to support the local art community and economy.

Ethical Jewellery Designer: Alicia Agarrabeitia

Read the article by Kendra Coupland on the Real Weddings website here.

THERE ARE NO WRONG PATHS

The new year is upon us. For some it's just another year. For some it's a new year, new you.

Personally, I don't make new years resolutions. I do however, remind myself to dream big and take risks: if you succeed, you’ll be happy; if you fail, you’ll be smarter. Win Win.

I recently came across a video of Oprah speaking at the Stanford School of Business. She talks about career, life, and leadership. The last minute is what resonated with me most. I’ve paraphrased it for you…

“There are no wrong paths. There’s no such thing as failure. Failure is just [life] trying to move you in another direction. You get as much from your losses as you do from your victories. The losses are there to wake you up. When you understand that, you won’t allow yourself to be completely thrown by a circumstance. Your life is bigger than any one experience. Relax…it’s going to be ok. You’ll know you’re on a detour when you’re not at ease with yourself. That is the cue that you need to be moving in another direction. The way through the challenge is to get still and ask yourself what is the next right move.”

Life is about learning and you can’t learn if you’re dwelling on what was or what you can’t change.

So with that in mind, I wish you all a happy new year. I hope that instead of making new years resolutions, you choose to simply live life to it’s fullest potential.